How to be happy with what we have…
How to be happy with what we have right now? Oh well, it sounds easy, doesn´t it? I think it´s good to dream and wish for bigger and better, but when does tomorrow become today? The Day that we are just happy? Just like that. Even if we don´t have the perfect house or the perfect job or this or that… I have learned a lot moving to Portugal. Sometimes things don´t happen when you want here, well, correction; most of the time things don´t happen when you want them too at all!
So I realized that I have to make the best of it. So the day the electrician didn´t come, I just light candles instead. The day whatever official office is closed for lunch (not just an hour, but 2-3 hours) I go for a long lunch too. I change my mind a lot, I adapt. I don´t have a 8-4 job, so I can actually do this, what a blessing! And by doing things unexpected, I sometimes end up in a little taverna waiting for things to happen, so I might as well enjoy the wine, cheese and food. I could waste a lot of energy on getting really mad, but I´ve tried that and then I just get so tired of being mad. So I decided to adapt instead. Go with the flow so to speak, or actually; make my own flow…
My new flow-plan now is to enjoy what I have… since it´s been my dream to live here for such a long time. But now that I do live here, I sometimes get ahead of myself wishing for other things that I don´t have yet…
How about you, do you flow?
“I’D LOVE YOUR THOUGHTS….” = A.O.
xo
you have my heart thoughts ……………
i wished you lived next door
xoxoxoxo
Happy Sunday lady
hope it was a lovely weekend there ………
it was lovely here xo
Tons of love xo >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> zing
Hey sunshine! Thank you, one day I’ll knock on your door;-) Lots of love and light from me, had a nice weekend, picnic on the beach!
knock knock …………..:) xx
Gorgeous xoxo
Picnic on the beach …….. sounds LOVELY ……………
had a big rainstorm yesterday here – BUT TODAY – amazing sun- clear –
Have a Great day – aft – eve xx
C
* Sometimes, we have to be broken down so that we can be rebuilt into what we’re actually meant to be. * I suffer from girlnextdooritis, where the guy is friends with you and that’s it. * Life is God’s novel, let Him write it. * Nothing was perfect but everything was real. * If you’re not happy with the person you’re with, don’t stay with them. You’re not magically going to wake up one morning and decide you’re going to be happy again. Someone makes you that way. Find the someone that makes you happy. *The worst thing is holding on to someone that doesn’t want to be held on to. * In life we all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an unreachable dream and an unforgettable love. * Pick battles big enough to matter, and small enough to win. * It was always easy to point the finger, to let someone else take the blame. When you make a living out of making excuses, it’s hard to face yourself again. * Leave love to your heart; don’t let your head question it. * Haters only hate the things that they can’t get and the people they can’t be. * I have to face the truth that no one could ever look at me like you do, like I’m something worth holding on to. * Learn to give not because you have many, but give because you know the feeling of having nothing. * I hope I’ve made a difference in your life; significant enough to cross your mind at night. * Always listen to people when they’re mad, that’s when the truth comes out.